Friday, March 11, 2011

Family dynamics

My Dad (b. July 4, 1907) was just shy of 50 years old when I was born, the eldest of three in his second family, and this sets up some interesting relationships. I was reminded of that this past week when my 86-year-old first cousin Curtis Link died. His mother, my Aunt Mildred, was one of Dad's older sisters, born in 1902 (dying in 1981), and I remember her clearly, even though by the time I first knew her she was already quite old, being 55 years my senior. Curtis was born in 1924, and I appreciated being at his service on Wednesday and hearing his daughter Kristi and granddaughter Amy reminisce about him. Curtis's father, Joe Link, died in late 1957, when I was not yet 9 months old, but I heard Dad speak glowingly about him very often.

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