Wednesday, March 14, 2007

Just musing, but on this mission trip to Mississippi, working with our work crew leader Dale Bernhardt (a 58-year-old retired Ford employee, and an excellent drywall installer), and the good man-to-man friendship we have developed, reminds me of a curious fact. As my Dad was only a few weeks shy of 50 when I was born, and used to emphasize to us constantly when we were kids that "a person doesn't even BEGIN to mature until about the age of 25," the combination of these two things made me consider myself still a "boy" until well past the age of 40 (bizarre though this seems). I only then began to consider that it was OK to regard myself as a "man," and even now, in these waning days of my forties, as 50 looms very large on the horizon, I sometimes feel like an imposter. But my kids regard me as "ancient" ... and I have to admit, that I AM starting to get up there.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

The years really do not count because deep in your heart, you're really still 16--just like the rest of us.

I know you have two more days before the Big 50 but I want to get in an advance Happy Birthday just in case I am unable to do so before that time.

I'm so glad you started this blog. And I particularly love the photos. I can't get over how much you remind me of big Red--K.V. Borton.

While we're at it--a Morenci "hi" to MJ.

Anonymous said...

Hey, whassup? According to the original post, there is no record of any comments being made. One was posted yesterday and it still doesn't show up.

I'll try it again.

Mary Jane said...

And I'll jump in and remind you that you absolutely are NOT ancient. That would make me even more ancient, and we all know that's not the case. What do our kids know anyway??? :-)